Question 1. | I really need kids to pitch in (write in reason of choice: single parent, busy schedule, ailing parents, demanding job, kids waste time, they have to, it’s their turn…) |
Answer 1. | Uh-hunh. How much of what you do in a day is optional? TV, computer time, re-organizing organized things, cleaning clean things, pampering, socializing… |
Question 1.a. | I deserve a break. |
Answer 1.a. | From what? |
Question 1.b. | From all the drudgery and hard, menial work I do for them –laundry, cleaning, tidying, picking up after them, shopping, cooking… |
Answer 1.b. | So, because you’re you and the work you do is beneath you, you’re entitled to free labour from ‘not really people’ because that’s what you had kids for: slaves? |
Question 1.c. | No, no, no! Not at all!! They need to learn to do it and I need a break. |
Answer 1.c. | Popular answers, but failing to address the issue: the work is beneath you, not them? |
Linda Clement, Parenting Coach, for parents who want to Thrive, even if it means a little uncomfortable work to make it happen
Sunday, 19 June 2011
Chores & Underlings: Drudgery
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