Question 1. | How can I improve my kids’ attitudes toward helping out at home? |
Answer 1. | Check your attitude. The odds are excellent that your kids are mirroring, venting or just showing you yours. |
Question 1.a. | My attitude is excellent: I know it needs to be done, I know it’s ‘work now, play later.’ I know it’s important to get things done. |
Answer 1.a. | I’m not hearing ‘I enjoy and value this work while I’m doing it –I plan it and look forward to it.’ |
Question 1.b. | What kind of nutcase feels that way about cleaning toilets? |
Answer 1.b. | You’d be amazed –but it’s the attitude you want someone to tell you how to install in your kids. If you can’t find it within reality, how on earth can they? |
Linda Clement, Parenting Coach, for parents who want to Thrive, even if it means a little uncomfortable work to make it happen
Showing posts with label attitude. Show all posts
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Sunday, 19 June 2011
Chores & Underlings: Attitude
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